You Are Beloved
Adapted from the resource Healing the Soul of a Woman - by
The greatest happiness and peace in
people’s lives comes from knowing they are loved unconditionally, for
exactly who they are, with all their strengths and weaknesses, good
points and not‑so‑good points. I don’t think any human being alive, no
matter how wonderful or godly he or she might be, is fully capable of
loving us unconditionally all the time. Only God can love us that way.
God loves us unconditionally in spite of ourselves, no matter what we do. But He does even more than that; He also calls us His beloved
(see Romans 9:25). This is a term of endearment reserved for someone
who is very special to someone else, someone who holds a unique place in
another person’s heart. It means to long for, to respect, and to hold in affectionate regard.
When I think of the word beloved, I sense that it means to be loved
in every way at every moment in time. Because you are God’s beloved,
there has never been and never will be even a split-second when you are
not perfectly loved.
The enemy will use many different things
that will challenge your belief that you are beloved. He may use words
other people have spoken about you, situations where you’ve been
victimized, mistakes, failures, disappointments, and anything else that
would damage the way you see yourself or cause you to doubt the truth of
what God’s Word says about you. Well-known minister and author Henri
Nouwen wrote: “Self-rejection is the greatest enemy of the spiritual
life because it contradicts the sacred voice that calls us the
‘Beloved.’ ”
To fight self-rejection and all the other
things that try to contradict the “sacred voice that calls us the
‘Beloved,’ ” we need to do what the apostle John encourages us to do in
today’s verse: We receive God’s love totally by faith, coming to know
and believe He loves us. The more we meditate on that and persist in
believing, the more established it becomes in our hearts. When we’ve
been deeply wounded, receiving this love is not always easy. Don’t get
discouraged if you find yourself struggling to accept it—just let the
desire of your heart be to embrace it more and more. If there are times
when you feel like you’ve failed, just begin again. With God, you can
always make a fresh start. Eventually, God’s unconditional love for you
and your place as His beloved will be deeply rooted in your heart and no
one will be able to convince you otherwise, but it takes time.
When we’re secure in our place as God’s
beloved, we’re strong and confident. We can step into our destiny and
into the beautiful future He has planned for us. I encourage you to say
out loud today, “I am God’s beloved,” as often as you can. The more you
say it, the more you will believe it.
Prayer Starter: Jesus,
please heal me where I’ve been hurt, and help me see myself the way You
see me, so I can live in the confidence of Your love. Thank You for
calling me Your beloved. In Jesus’ Name, amen.
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